What actually turns autistic women on, and what kills desire instantly. Real experiences on safety, sensory needs, and what pleasure looks like without the mask.
Exploring what sex and intimacy actually feel like for autistic women: sensory overwhelm, unmasking, the paradox of desire, and practical strategies. Based on the shared experiences of 1,000+ voices.
Worried because you haven't had sex in weeks? Here's what the research actually says about normal sex frequency, and why you're probably fine.
What really happens to your sex life after having a baby, backed by research. Plus practical strategies for staying connected when you're exhausted, touched out, and running on no sleep.
Understanding why couples stop having sex, from stress and kids to mismatched desire. Research-backed reasons behind the sex slump and how to reconnect.
Real statistics on how often married couples have sex, broken down by age, plus what research says about the "right" amount for relationship happiness.
There's no magic number for married sex. Here's what research shows about averages, how frequency changes over a marriage, and what actually matters.
How much sex should you be having? Here's what the research says about averages, and why the better question is whether you're both satisfied.
Sex often disappears after a baby arrives. Here's why it happens, what's normal, and how to gradually rebuild connection without pressure.
The cultural definition of sex is narrow and excludes many people. Expanding what counts as sex and intimacy leads to better outcomes for everyone.
More sex means a happier relationship, right? The research is more nuanced. Here's what actually determines whether frequency helps or hurts.
Most long-term couples experience declining sexual frequency. Here's why it happens, when it's a problem, and what you can do about it.
Emotional and physical intimacy are deeply linked, but not in the same way for everyone. Understanding the connection helps you build both.
Fear of rejection keeps many people from initiating sex. Here's how to make initiation less scary, improve your success rate, and handle no gracefully.
Is monogamy better than polyamory? Is ENM more fulfilling? Research shows satisfaction depends on fit, not structure. Here's what the science says.
Is casual sex good or bad for you? The research is more nuanced than either side claims. Here's what actually determines whether hookups help or hurt.
You don't need a partner to understand your sexuality. Here's how solo exploration builds self-awareness that benefits you now and in future relationships.
Debunking myths like "lesbian bed death" and examining what research actually shows about sexual frequency and satisfaction in LGBTQ+ relationships.
Think BDSM indicates something is wrong? Research shows the opposite. Here's what science actually says about kink and relationship health.
Casual sex is better when you communicate. Here's how to talk about consent, boundaries, and what you want, even with someone you just met.
Practical guidance on navigating intimacy as a trans person or partner of a trans person. Communication strategies, managing dysphoria, and building connection.
A practical guide to logging intimacy across multiple relationships. How to track, what patterns to look for, and how data supports better communication in polyamory and ENM.
Open relationships require more communication, not less. Here's why tracking intimacy can help you stay connected, manage multiple dynamics, and avoid common pitfalls.
Want more intimacy but don't know how to bring it up? Here's how to have the conversation without pressure, blame, or making things worse.
When one partner wants more sex than the other, tension builds. Here's how to navigate mismatched libidos without pressure, guilt, or resentment.
Does more sex mean a happier relationship? Research reveals a surprising answer. Here's what actually matters for relationship satisfaction.
Research suggests regular sex may boost your immune system, improve sleep, reduce stress, and more. Here's what the science actually shows.
Want more intimacy but don't want to create pressure? Research shows pushing for more sex often backfires. Here's what actually works.
A practical guide to tracking intimacy with a sex calendar. What to log, what you'll learn, and how simple awareness can improve your connection.
Think scheduling sex sounds unromantic? Research shows planned intimacy is just as satisfying as spontaneous sex. Here's why it works and how to do it right.
Research-backed strategies for maintaining passion in long-term relationships, from scheduling intimacy to exploring new dynamics together. What actually works after a decade.
Discover the surprising benefits of tracking your sex life, from better communication to understanding your own patterns. Here's why couples are using intimacy trackers.